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How Fussy or Forceful are you?

Many times, the reason we have not experienced freedom is some areas of our lives is because we are not fussy enough.

How fussy are you? Let me ask it a bit differently. How forceful are you?

Zaneta (our second daughter) is about 7 months old. One day, it was my turn to look after her. Idara, my wife, was going upstairs to do something and as she stood up to leave, Zaneta started to complain as babies would.

Idara took a few steps up the stairs, paused, turned around and said to me, If she becomes very fussy, release her from her chair and let her play around.

I heard what she said and I understood it, but it triggered up something in my head. From childhood, the level of your fussiness determines how quickly you will gain freedom from whatever situation is holding you down. Within a few seconds, as Idara disappeared up the stairs, Zaneta became calm.

If she had continued, I would have taken her out, given her freedom, may be made food and find many toys until she is comfortable.

Don’t be afraid to vehemently reject anything you don’t like or that is causing you to feel miserable. It is the language that life understands.

Be shamelessly fussy! Demand your freedom! 

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I am practically breaking into a gospel kind of “writing”! I have to stop before I allow you obstruct my work time. This is 12:08pm in Australia and I am very busy! I should have never opened your mail now!
Elizabeth
I have a testimony to share with you. By the grace of God, I got a job with Cadbury. And the pay package is far better than where I am presently. Then I remembered one of your words you shared with me in one of your mails to me, you told me : Emmanuel, your time will come.. And I believe my time has just started. Thanks so much Ibukun for being my best mail friend.
Emmanuel
Thanks for this write up and also for your constant mails. I see and read them all. I really appreciate and Remain blessed.
Ayodele
Thanks so much for your generosity and kind heartedness in sharing these brilliant ideas, God bless you. Your emails are always captivating and you make writing look so easy ☺. And thanks for already giving us permission to copy this invitation.
Bose
Dear Ibukun, I believe it's not only courteous but also obligatory to thank you for your emails. I just want to let you know I appreciate them. May God bless you evermore,
Enosa
Thank you so much for this mail, it came in just right in time. Really appreciate. You wouldn't understand how much it means to me.Thank You Sir. Glad I belong to your generation of great achievers.
Legbe
Thank You. You're right, I certainly do read your emails, & with eagerness actually. Am usually certain I'll learn something each time. Many thanks (for the recent one) I'm the center of the universe ey' Now i feel blessed...
Omotola
Ibukun! Youre such a genius!! absolutely love the write up!
Bola
What More can i say? am grateful for all the tips and carrier advice you have being giving to me. Honestly they have formed core of my work ethics. I just want to take this time out to say thank you once again and my regards to your family
Emmanuel
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Tolu